A Gemini (雙子座)

Came across a post about Horoscopes on Facebook and I think, some of the things that were written are quite accurate… And, it does explain some of the behavior that we, as a Gemini, have! To summarise, we the Gemini is really an eccentric species. Seems to me that we actually don’t really know our trueself, then, how do we expect others to know us ??? It’s a sad truth… LOL …


** Please bear with my translation (>v<) ….

雙子有時候瘋瘋癲癲，有時非常嚴肅，有時候根本搞不懂自己想幹嘛。討厭別人不信任和誤會，遇到不開心的事會憋在心底，就算多不開心，也還是笑面迎人。心底的話很少跟別人說，不是不想說，而是不知道怎麼說，就算說了別人還是怎麼也不懂自己的想法。雙子座還是只有雙子座的人才懂。


There are certain times that we are crazy / serious / we actually don’t even know what we are thinking / what we want to do. We dislike people when they misunderstood us / when they don’t trust us. When we encounter unhappy things, we will just keep it bottom in our heart. We will always smile and laugh no matter how unhappy we are. We seldom let people know what is deep in our heart. Why? We feel that people usually don’t understand us. Only a Gemini will understand a Gemini’s thought.


偏執、悲觀、輕微強迫癥，白天理性，夜晚感性，白天堅強，夜晚脆弱。往往有點不可理喻，有點可愛，有點任性。心計不多，鬧完了兇完了，不記仇，心胸寬廣，只是別激怒了她。愛上時，飛蛾撲火。不愛時，寡言冷漠。我是無畏於心，無悔於情的雙子座，為自己驕傲地活著。

Paranoid. Pessimistic. Mild obsessive-compulsive disorder. Rational at day time but emotional/sensitive at night. Strong at day time but fragile at night. Often act ridiculously, a little bit cute, a little bit wayward. Don’t really scheme at people, don’t hold a grudge, broad-minded. However, do not make us angry. Once we fall in love, we are very passionate. When we fall out of love, we will be very ‘cold’ and indifferent. We are fearless in the heart. We do not regret and proud to be a Gemini.


脾氣有點大、表面溫和到別人誤以為很好欺負，其實內心脾氣大的可怕！性格矛盾分裂、自尊強大，太現實、認真、看問題太透，孤獨、缺乏安全感、自閉、憂鬱，愛太深、比較容易受傷、受傷就選擇逃避，喜歡亂想、想太多、愛糾結、超倔強。

Our temper is not really good. We look mild and harmony and others always thought that we are easy to be bullied. Actually, deep down in our heart, we are raging and can be very scary. Split personality contradictions, self-esteem is strong, too realistic, serious, look at the issue too thoroughly, lonely, insecure, keep to ourselves, depressed, love too deeply so relatively, we are more easy to get hurt. Once we are hurt, the option is to escape. Like to think too much and super stubborn.


雙子們的笑永遠都是最簡單的、無論什麼時候你都會看見一直都在笑的雙子，因為他們一直都只想把自己的快樂帶給別人、卻只把悲傷留給自己。你沒有看到過雙子的眼淚是因為他不喜歡在別人面前哭，當你看到雙子的眼淚時、那麼說明你是真的把雙子的真心奪走了，因為雙子真的很需要一份值得依賴的依靠。

Our smile is always the most simple. You will always see a smiling Gemini because we want to bring happiness to others and keep the sorrow to ourselves. You will hardly see our tears because we don’t like to cry in front of people. If you saw us crying, this means you got our heart and trust and we really need someone who can be trusted and relied upon.


當雙子座愛上一個人時就連自我也無法分清；
當雙子座愛上一個人時會自卑地認為自己不夠好；
當雙子座愛上一個人時把自己的自尊也忘掉；
當雙子座愛上一個人時一反常態收起大咧咧的性格來迎合喜歡的人。但你不能說雙子座為什麼會那麼傻，這只是雙子座愛人的一種方式。

When a Gemini falls in love, we can’t distinguish our ownself;
When a Gemini falls in love, we will have low self-esteem and always think that we are not good enough;
When Gemini falls in love, we will forget our own self-esteem;
When Gemini falls in love, we will ‘keep our’ character away for the one that we like
But you cannot say why we are so stupid when it comes to love? This is just our way to love a person.


雙子座、敢愛敢恨、愛笑愛鬧、情緒化，容易與世界打成一片、也能安靜地讓旁人發現不了自己的存在，心情不好時、躲在屬於自己的安全角落，希望自己在意的那個人能發現自己來疼、來安慰，雙子座、一直都是個真性情的孩子。雖然喜歡結交異性、但愛只會給一個人、付出不需要有結果，也正因為太認真了、就很容易受傷、也很敏感，雖然表面是冷漠的、無顧忌的、但內心永遠永遠只忠於一個人。哪怕他不是值得愛的人、也要堅持守到最後一刻。

We dare to love, dare to hate. Love to be playful and merry. Emotional. Easy to mingle with people. We can be quiet and just let others slowly to realise our existence. When we are in a bad mood, we would hide in our corner. At the same time, we also hope that our loved ones will realise our sorrow and comes to love and comfort us. We are always a ‘child’. Although we are very sociable and mingles well with the opposite sex, we only give our love to one person. We give and we don’t hope for any return. Maybe because we are too serious when it comes to relationship, we are very easy to get hurt. Very sensitive. Although we look cool, deep in our heart, we are loyal only to one person. Even if that person is not worthy, we would insist to try till the end to make it work.


最註重的就是安全感，希望被保護，卻常常是一個人，雙子不容易愛上一個人，但一旦愛上便很難自拔。一旦受傷，總是被傷的很深，雙子是個很愛撒嬌的孩子，總是很依賴別人，雙子喜歡海，喜歡自憐，喜歡自己舔傷口，雙子性格很古怪而又孤僻，他們會突然在大笑中沈默，感覺悲傷。

The most important thing is the sense of security, hope to be taken care of and protected. However, we are always alone. We do not fall in love easily but once we do, it will be difficult for us to pull back. If we are hurt, we always hurt deeply. We love to be spoiled, like to be dependent on the others. Like the sea. Like to be self-pitied. Like to ‘lick our own wound’. We have very strange and eccentric personality. We can suddenly laugh out loud and fall into silence feeling sad the next minute.


一半明朗一半憂傷，一半冷漠一半熱情，對陌生人無視，對不熟的人外熱內冷，遇到喜歡的人反而有種疏遠感，會害羞，有時很霸道，強烈的佔有慾，怕麻煩，所以不喜歡和人搞曖昧，把感情也當作一種藝術欣賞，選擇慢慢雕琢，細細品位，似乎都看起來傻傻的，但這是一種自我保護方式。

We can be happy go lucky or sad. We can be very cool or friendly. We ignore strangers. We can be friendly to people who is not close to us but deep in our heart, we are cool towards that person. When we meet someone that we like, we will act opposite, i.e. not so friendly to that person. Shy, sometimes overbearing, have strong possessiveness. We fear trouble so we don’t like to be in an ambiguous feeling. We treat a relationship as a piece of art, needs to be carved slowly, to be savoured and appreciated. Seems like it’s a silly thing to do but this is our way to protect our fragile heart.


有人說雙子座分手的很無情，但有誰知道、當雙子斷絕來往的時候已經準備了多久！你給他們的傷害太多了、雙子也是人、不是冷血動物，如果雙子準備跟你分手、愛著雙子的人應該好好想想你把他傷得有多深，其實雙子很包容、甚至愛你的時候連自己的性格都願意為對方改變，這..只有愛過的雙子才知道。

Some people say that the Gemini is ruthless when they break up. But, people don’t know that we actually think through for a long time before we cut off the relationship. The person would have hurt us too much. We are also a human, not a cold-blooded animal. If we are ready to break up with you, you may want to think about what you have done to make us decide that it’s the end. This is because a Gemini will accept and be patience to whatever you do. We are even willing to change our own personality for the one we love. Only a Gemini who is in love before will understand this.


其實身邊很多人都不瞭解雙子座、很多時候的好心總是被人誤解，用心的付出、用心的愛卻總是被別人浪費、嘲笑。雙子一個人的時候才是真正的自己、一個人旅行才能獲得真正的快樂。

Actually, a lot of people do not understand the Gemini. People always misunderstand our good intentions. Our honesty and our true love is always being ridiculed by people and being wasted. We are at our true-self when we are alone. We will feel truly happy when we travel alone.


牽強的微笑背後；誰能看出雙子的憂傷？

Who can actually see our sorrow behind our strong and warm smile le ????

** A very contradicting personality horr ... Why so complicated ?